Are you one of the many women wondering, “what are my chances of getting pregnant” as you age? As today’s society provides women with more options to explore than ever before, the need to get married and settle down right after college has been replaced by a drive to see the world or climb the professional ladder.
But what does this mean for women who still want to build a family later in life?
As the old adage claims: “Nothing is impossible.”
However, the question of possibility is not the primary issue for women trying to get pregnant in their late 40s and early 50s. This article will explain the options and risks surrounding a woman’s ability to successfully have a child in her later years.
Despite a change in times, some people still find the idea of waiting until your late 40s or 50s to get pregnant slightly unorthodox.
That being said, an average of 13 babies are born to mothers over 50 every week.
Why are some women are choosing to wait?
There are a multitude of reasons a woman might be having a baby later in life. Some are recently remarried, and would like the chance to have a child with their new husbands; others spend their lives focusing on their careers. Sadly, some women face medical issues forcing them to put off getting pregnant.
For others, they’re still exploring a variety of fertility options, and aren’t ready to consider adoption or surrogacy yet.
The fact is women may be a collective group, but each of us has our own story to tell and a background that has led us down certain paths.
At the end of the day, though, statistics are black and white.
How do age and menopause affect a woman’s ability to conceive?
All women eventually “go through menopause,” but what does that mean?
Do you wake up one day post-menopausal?
Menopause is defined by three different stages:
By definition, premenopause is considered any time in a woman’s life before menopause begins. Many experts loosely use this term to describe the period when she’s most fertile.
Perimenopause, on the other hand, usually occurs during a woman’s late 40s and describes the beginning of the menopause transition. She begins to experience a drop in estrogen and hormone levels, along with a variety of symptoms such as hot flashes and mood changes. This stage also involves a reduction in menstrual cycles.
So, when are you classified as a postmenopausal woman?
By scientific definition, a woman enters postmenopause once she’s gone more than a year without a period. The entire process can take several years to complete.
What are the chances of naturally getting pregnant after menopause?
Unfortunately, a woman in the perimenopause stage who hasn’t stopped having periods has less than a 20% chance of getting pregnant.
While the likelihood of conceiving after she’s stopped menstruating is slim, it’s not impossible.
How does this occur?
Menopause or not, the chances of getting pregnant later in life - especially after menopause - are small.
If you do find yourself trying to become pregnant after your 50th birthday, you’ll need the assistance of estrogen and various hormones to reverse menopause if it has occurred.
There’s no way to sugarcoat complications that can come with pregnancy in a woman’s later years.
Despite the difficulty, we often hear women ask the same question:
“What can we do to successfully get pregnant after menopause?”
There may be one option worth looking into.
Donor egg IVF is an incredible option for older women who still desire to become pregnant.
While pursuing a fresh donor egg cycle is no longer an option for postmenopausal women, as they have no menstrual cycle to sync with their donor, frozen egg donation could be the answer you’re looking for.
U.S. facilities have strict requirements for older women - specifically women over 50 - interested in undergoing a frozen donor egg IVF cycle. Since the average age of menopause is 51, only a few programs will treat women beyond the age that nature itself intended.
There are programs that treat women up to the age of 55. These programs may be hard to find, but with persistence and the willingness to travel, you will be successful. You should know older women with an interest in donor eggs are required to pass certain medical tests, including (but not limited to):
• Stress Tests
Women over 50 who are curious about their chances of becoming a donor egg recipient should seek out their fertility clinic for specific health and age requirements.
While many women think a fresh donor egg is the best choice to have a successful IVF cycle, most women don’t realize how close the success rates of fresh and frozen donor eggs are nowadays.
Advances in flash-freezing techniques diligently work to protect donated eggs from ice crystal formation and decomposition during storage. These developments offer results mirroring those of a fresh cycle.
Unfortunately, just because the odds of getting pregnant are about the same for frozen and fresh donor eggs, it does not mean the chances of a 54-year-old getting pregnant are the same as a woman in her 30s or early 40s.
If using donor eggs, a woman over the age of 50 has the same likelihood of getting pregnant as a woman in her 20’s or 30’s. Nonetheless, having peak health over the age of 50 can mitigate complications in what is deemed a high-risk pregnancy.
One major advantage that comes with getting pregnant later in life is experience.
Compared to younger women, women who become pregnant later have a broader range of life skills and familiarities. These women have established financial independence, found greater wisdom, and developed a better sense of self.
But, before an older woman becomes pregnant, it is important for her to know and accept the risks, especially if she is over 50.
Along with expected risks - like a greater chance of needing a caesarean section and higher miscarriage rates - there are other dangers, such as:
• Gestational Diabetes
• Ectopic Pregnancy
• Chromosomal Deformities in Children
• Low Birth
• Premature Birth
• Less energy and strength to handle the pregnancy due to aging
While older pregnancy is becoming more widely accepted due to improved medical practices and societal growth, there are still some people who believe women in their late 40s or in their early 50s are too old to be getting pregnant.
While many U.S. women are now living well into their 80s, women who choose to have children when they are older will ultimately have less time with them than if they had become pregnant when they were younger.
This unfortunate reality may cause people around you to feel resentment or anger because you will have less time with your child. You might find yourself in uncomfortable situations or facing uncomfortable questions.
If you are one of these older women, you should take into consideration the realities of becoming pregnant later in life.
Here are statistics about women getting pregnant over 50:
• U.S. women giving birth over 50 is on the rise; in 2012, 600 women over 50 gave birth to a baby. In comparison, only 144 births like this occurred in 1997.
• In 2013, 0.02% of the babies born belonged to mothers over 50.
• Of that number, a third of the babies were the first child for these women.
While modern-day technology makes older pregnancies a possibility, it’s vital to understand they do not come without risk and effort.
Current headlines show success stories of people like Janet Jackson having a child in their 50s. If you’re interested in having a baby later in life, you should know many of the women you read about more than likely got pregnant through donor egg IVF.
Though celebrities like Jackson may not be outspoken about their donor egg usage, it is nearly impossible for her to have conceived naturally and carry her child without complications at her age.
Our society is one built on opportunity and freedom. There is no rule stating you should not, or cannot, get pregnant in your late 40s or early 50s. That being said, accepting the reality of the situation is essential.
If you are an older woman in good health and great physical shape, there’s no reason you shouldn’t consider frozen donor eggs to get pregnant.
Whether you’ve finally reached the right time in your life, have overcome a medical battle, or simply want to grow your family - every child is a miracle.
You deserve the chance to try and find yours.
Ik have 2 questions;
1. What is t h en limit of age tot have an egg donation?
2. Is it possible to have an open spermdonor?
Thank you very much.
Kind regards Nicole Groen
Submitted by Nicole 1 year, 6 months ago
I am 50 years old, in great health and considering harvesting my eggs. I have had an oblation and have not had a period in years. I do not think I have gone through menopause. I am planning on finding a surrogate mother to carry. I am wondering what to expect.
Submitted by monta loftis 1 year, 6 months ago
If a woman is still getting a light period at age 58, can she become pregnant & find a surrogate mother to carry the baby for her? Some women do not want to use another woman's eggs.
Submitted by Celia 6 months, 2 weeks ago
I am a 55 year old woman who just had my Mirena IUD removed a month ago. I'm not sure if I am done foing through meopause or not. I havent had a period in the month since the IUD removal. I would like to get pregnant. Am I too old? I have 4 older children and am healthy. What are my options?
Submitted by Laurette 4 months, 4 weeks ago
Donna M Jones. In Denver Colorado..
I am 52 and will be 53 in Aug 29 2020
And I have been searching for a fertility clinic that will service me in to getting pregnant by Donor Egg.at my age.
I have had two phone appt by two different clinics here in COLORADO and was told i was to old with out ever meeting me...
I am in perfect health no meds ..
I need help in to finding someone to work with me at 53 ... My husband is 35 and we want a child together... Please send us some information.. On where to go for treatment..
Donna M Jones
Submitted by Donna Jones 4 months, 2 weeks ago
I’d like some info on diner eggs at age 52.
Submitted by Angelina 1 month, 3 weeks ago
I am 53 going on 54 shortly i’ve always wanted to be a mother. I was never successfully able to do it naturally in my prime years. My husband at the age of 38 and I would like to have a donor egg pregnancy. I see that Donna Jones is almost in the same situation as I. I ask where and how this is possible? Donna Jones Have you been able to find a clinic that would support you and bring you through this process? Does anyone know of a clinic that will support a woman in her early 50s to have a pregnancy using a donor egg? I live in Connecticut. Would love a response from anyone who knows or has gone through what I wish to go through to share their information and experience. Thank you. Johnna M ph 203/592-6342.
Submitted by Johnna M 1 month, 1 week ago